Flowers, Pearls, and Sorority Girls
Musings on Sorority Life and Something Called Sisterhood
Thursday, August 8, 2013
Wednesday, June 26, 2013
Sororities: from Alpha to Zeta
There are many Greek-letter organizations in the United States, including sororities or women's fraternities. Here's a comprehensive list of sororities, complete with their Greek letters and national websites. Go Greek!
Alpha Chi Omega -- ΑΧΩ
Alpha Epsilon Phi -- ΑΕΦ
Alpha Gamma Delta -- ΑΓΔ
Alpha Kappa Alpha -- ΑΚΑ
Alpha Omicron Pi -- ΑΟΠ, AOII
Alpha Phi -- ΑΦ
Alpha Sigma Alpha* -- ΑΣΑ
Alpha Sigma Tau -- ΑΣΤ
Alpha Xi Delta -- ΑΞΔ
Chi Omega -- ΧΩ
Delta Delta Delta -- ΔΔΔ
Delta Gamma -- ΔΓ
Delta Phi Epsilon -- ΔΦΕ
Delta Sigma Theta* -- ΔΣΘ
Delta Zeta -- ΔΖ
Gamma Phi Beta -- ΓΦΒ
Gamma Phi Delta* -- ΓΦΔ
Gamma Sigma Sigma -- ΓΣΣ
Iota Phi Lambda* -- IΦΛ
Kappa Alpha Theta -- ΚΑΘ
Kappa Delta -- ΚΔ
Kappa Delta Phi Nas
(Non-Affiliated Sorority) -- ΚΔΦ
Kappa Kappa Gamma -- ΚΚΓ
Phi Mu -- ΦΜ
Phi Sigma Sigma -- ΦΣΣ
Pi Beta Phi -- ΠΒΦ
Sigma Alpha Iota -- ΣΑΙ
Sigma Delta Tau -- ΣΔΤ
Sigma Gamma Rho* -- ΣΓΡ
Sigma Kappa -- ΦΣK
Sigma Sigma Sigma -- ΣΣΣ
Theta Phi Alpha -- ΘΦΑ
Zeta Phi Beta* -- ΖΦΒ
Zeta Tau Alpha -- ΖΤΑ
*traditional African-American organization
Monday, June 17, 2013
Chapter Leadership -- Executive Council
One of the main
reasons that I decided to get involved in Greek life was to be a leader on
campus and find a group of women to connect with. As soon as I was
offered the chance, I became a council member and have been for two+ years now;
that was something that I was interested in from the beginning and have loved
it since. Sororities offer amazing opportunities to directly impact your Greek
chapter and network with talented women across the country. Are you
wanting a particular company position or looking for experience while in
college? Networking with your sisters (both those you
know personally and reaching out to sisters you don’t know yet) can give you an
upper hand in an employment environment.
Whether you’re
interested in a chapter leadership position or would prefer a behind-the-scenes
job (there are many different types of jobs, and benefits too!), being on council
or having an officer’s position are what keeps sorority chapters going.
Your sorority wouldn’t have an incredible Bid Day without your New Member Ed/Membership
chair, and philanthropy events wouldn’t be nearly as
successful without your Philanthropy/Community Service Chair. While the
titles of each position and chain of command varies by chapter and by Greek
organization, the hard work comes directly from those who volunteer their time
to lead within the sorority. New members can get involved, too!
This list provides a
good example of an executive council. Keep in mind that some chapters
don’t necessarily need all potential positions on council, or some may be
appointed officer jobs underneath specific council positions. The basic
positions are the same, even though the title may vary:
•
Chapter President
•
Vice President of [New] Member Education
•
Vice President of Recruitment
•
Vice President of Philanthropy/Community Service
•
Vice President of Housing
•
Vice President of Finance/Treasurer
•
Vice President of Communications (may be known as Public Relations)
•
Vice President of Sisterhood Event Planning
•
Vice President of Administration
•
Vice President of Membership Development
•
Vice President of Operations
•
Secretary
•
Panhellenic Conference Representative
In order to have a
leadership position on council, you typically need to be nominated by someone
else or yourself. In my sorority, we have a “slate” committee of
individuals from each class with our advisory board who are not running for
office; these women discuss who they think would be best for each job for the
chapter overall. This helps in case one position isn’t generating a lot
of interest, to clarify what each position does, and highlight the talents of
individuals who might be better for a different job.
Following nomination,
sometimes you will be expected to make a short (2-minute) speech as to why you would be best for that
position or why you want it. Don’t use this time to bash any of the other
candidates- it just makes you seem insecure and doesn’t showcase positives
about yourself. Be honest and find out what each position is responsible
for! Council officers have to fill out paperwork, be very organized, and
work with the executive council to unite the chapter and relay information to
other sisters. Being on council can be a stressful job, and it’s not one
that you get paid for; however, I think it’s so incredibly rewarding to
directly influence what is going on in my sorority and be responsible for so
much. I’d highly recommend working closely with your alumni advisor in order to come up with the best ideas and take someone
else’s opinion into consideration. Just remember that you are the
one in your position!
When it comes to
being on executive council or having an officer’s position, lead by example. Whether you’re the chapter
president or are in charge of finances, you’re the face of your sorority!
It’s never a good thing when council members are constantly on bad standing
within the chapter, are failing classes, or are huge embarrassments at social
events, because those are elected members who are representing their
sisters. Your leaders should be very responsible and
organized, willing to compromise and hear other’s ideas and opinions, and be
humble (not putting themselves on high pedestals over other members). An
effective, intelligent council must work together; each officer is responsible
to her council and her chapter to do the best job that she possibly can.
It’s perfectly fine to reach out and rely on others for help, so don’t think
that you have to do everything alone! Council must be like a well-oiled
machine, where everyone must do their positions to the best of their
abilities. There’s nothing worse than a sister who comes to council
meetings unprepared with nothing to say, no updates on any upcoming events, and
poorly thought-out ideas (if any). Leadership positions require a lot of
outside work and planning, so don’t take the job if it’s not something that you
can do well. Have faith in yourself and your abilities when running for
office; having my positions within my chapter have probably been my absolute
favorite part about my overall Greek life experience so far, and I’d highly
recommend pursuing it to anyone who is interested. Some council officers
even go on to be Leadership Consultants for their sorority's national headquarters, traveling and meeting
sisters in chapters around the country!
If you're interested
in learning more, do your research and explore council applications for various
universities online! I love this article from Wayne Unger, former President of
Pi Kappa Phi Fraternity at Arizona State University. There are so many amazing reasons to get involved in Greek life;
chapter leadership is a great one for someone who truly loves her sorority and prepares leaders for future positions. Good luck!
Monday, May 27, 2013
Greek Life Terms
Curious as to what certain things pertaining to Greek life mean? Here's an extensive list of terms and their definitions:
A
Active Member – An initiated fraternity or sorority member in a Greek organization who is affiliated with a campus chapter and typically an undergraduate student
Alumna – A
graduated member of a women’s sorority/fraternity (plural is alumnae)
Alumni Association
– An organization of alumni from an individual fraternity or sorority. The
association may be based on geographical location or chapter.
Alumnus – A
graduated member of a men’s fraternity (plural is alumni)
B
B
Badge/Pin – the
insignia of an initiated member received during the Initiation ceremony that is
typically worn on the left side over the heart
Bid – a formal
invitation for membership into a Greek organization
Bid Day – The last
day of recruitment when new members accept their bids and officially join a
sorority
Big Brother/Big
Sister – An initiated member of a fraternity or sorority who is assigned to
serve as an advisor/mentor and friend to a new member. A “Big” guides the
“Little” (Little Brother/Sister) during their new member period and beyond.
Brother – An initiated member of a men’s fraternity
C
C
Chant/Call – A vocal sound or cheer that is used by Greek organizations to
acknowledge one another, boost spirit, and express their chapter
Chapter – The local collegiate group of a fraternity or sorority on a campus.
The first chapter of a sorority/fraternity is known as the Alpha chapter, and as
chapters are established, they are given Greek names to designate them.
Chapter Advisor – An alumna/alumnus who establishes and
maintains a close advisory relationship with a chapter and serves as a teacher,
counselor/mentor, and friend to active members.
Chapter House/Suite/Lodge – Depending on the campus, the location
where the sorority members live and/or hold their meetings.
Colony – A newly-organized collegiate group working with their National
Headquarters to become an established, chartered chapter. The members of a
colony are referred to the chapter’s “founders.”
Crossed – The actual date of initiation into a cultural Greek organization,
which is used to represent the symbolic “crossing of the burning sands”
D
D
Deferred Recruitment – A time when the Formal Recruitment
process occurs during the second semester
Debadge/Depin – The process of terminating one’s
membership anytime following Initiation and leaves the sorority/fraternity
Depledge/Break a Pledge – The process of terminating one’s
membership before Initiation when one is not yet an active, initiated member
Dues – Monthly or semesterly (depending on the established plan) costs of
being in a fraternity or sorority. Consistent failure to pay dues could result
in bad standing or termination of membership.
E
E
E-Board – “Executive
Board,” also referred to in some sororities as Executive Council, which
includes the elected executive officers of the chapter (i.e. President, Vice
Presidents, Secretary, etc.)
F
F
Formal – Like prom, only better. Typically every sorority/fraternity
hosts a formal once a year where each member is allowed one date, they are
often themed, and awards are given
Founders – The founding sisters or brothers of the national
sorority or fraternity
Fraternity – A men’s Greek organization. Some sororities do use the title in their
official name, as well as co-ed Greek organizations.
G
G
GDI – “God Damn
Independent,” refers to a
college student not in a fraternity or sorority. This term is used in a
derogatory way in some colleges, but used proudly by the non-Greeks themselves
in other colleges; see “Non-affiliated.”
GLO – “Greek
Letter Organization” (social, honor, or professional)
Good Standing – A sorority or fraternity member who has
fulfilled all membership obligations, such as paying their dues, maintaining
the required GPA, etc.
Greeks – Members of Greek-letter fraternities and sororities
Greek Week – A annual week of activities in which Greek chapters come together and
participate in athletic events, chanting or singing, community service,
brotherhood/sisterhood activities, a ceremony, etc.
H
H
Hazing - Any action taken or situation created, intentionally, to produce
mental or physical discomfort, embarrassment, harassment, or ridicule, which is
prohibited by university policy, state law, and the policies of national
fraternities and sororities. Hazing does not promote or build true
brotherhood/sisterhood and goes against the formal beliefs of a Greek
organization.
House Chair/Manager – The position of an appointed officer or
person who has been hired to supervise the chapter house
I
I
Inactive Member – Members who are not actively
participating in the chapter, which may be someone studying abroad, taking a
semester off, or are in some other category that really depends on the specific
organization.
Infraction – When a sorority or a sorority member
breaks a recruitment rule set forth by the Panhellenic council at her school
Initiation – A traditional, secret formal ceremony that officially gives someone
membership into a Greek organization. Formal Initiation is different depending
on each fraternity/sorority.
Intake – The educational process of membership that one goes through in order
to become an NPHC member
J
K
L
J
K
L
Lavalier – necklace bearing the letters of a fraternity/sorority
Lavaliering – When a fraternity man gives his letters
to his girlfriend, which indicates a romantic or close commitment. The
seriousness of this act varies from campus to campus and often ‘permits’ the
woman to wear the fraternity letters on a necklace.
Legacy – A potential new member whose grandparent, parent, brother, or sister
is a member of a fraternity or sorority. Traditionally, a legacy is more likely
to receive a bid from that particular fraternity/sorority and is only a legacy
for the organization that the relative was a member of.
Letters – The Greek letters of an organization that are worn or displayed on
various items, such as an article of clothing embroidered with the letters and
worn by an initiated member
Little – Each new member is given a “Big” sister
that has been a mentor to her throughout her new member period. The new
member is called a little. This bond remains even after the new member
has initiated. Fraternities also have big/ little brothers
M
M
Meet the Greeks – An information session typically held as
a meet-and-greet for the purpose of recruitment
N
N
Nationals – Every chapter is a member of a national
organization which sets policies for the entire sorority or fraternity
National Panhellenic Conference (NPC) – The governing body for 26 national and international
women’s fraternities/sororities
National Pan-Hellenic Council (NPHC) – The governing body of nine historically
African-American Greek fraternities and sororities
New Member
Educator – This is an
initiated member of the sorority/ fraternity who will serve as the new member
class’s “teacher” of the chapter. She or he will be their guide throughout
their new member period.
New Member/Pledge/Associate Member – A person who has accepted a bid from a
Greek organization, received the proper pin, and is preparing for membership
through Initiation.
New Member Education Process – The time period where new members learn
about their organization and responsibilities, bond with the other new members,
and participate in brotherhood/sisterhood activities
North-American Interfraternity Conference
(NIC) – The
governing body and trade association representing 75 International and National
Men's Fraternities
Non-affiliated – “Independent” individuals not involved
with a Greek-letter organization
O
O
Order of Omega – A national honor society that recognizes
fraternity and sorority members who excel in academic achievement, Greek
leadership, and campus involvement
P
P
Paddle – This is seen as a gift in the Greek world
and is often given from chapter to chapter as a crafted thank you gift or an
honor. It is also given between Littles and Bigs or close sisters/friends.
Philanthropy – A community service and/or fundraising
project sponsored by a chapter to raise money or donate community service hours,
which typically aligns with the Greek organization’s chosen charities
Pin – Sometimes known as an initiated member’s badge (see “badge”); may refer to pledge/new member
pins are worn by new members who are in the process leading up to initiation
Pledge – Refers to the men that have accepted a
bid to a particular fraternity chapter but are not yet initiated
Pledge Class – New members who pledge during the same
period, who typically form a closer bond as they go through the new member process
together
PNM – A “Potential New Member,” sometimes known as a Rushee, which is
someone going through a recruitment process and could potentially receive a bid
from a sorority or fraternity
Probation – A member of a sorority or fraternity is
put on probation if they have not fulfilled part of their membership, such as
GPA requirement, financial obligations, or social standards. Typically members
on probation cannot vote in chapter elections while on probation among other
restrictions.
Q
Q
Quota – The number of members a Greek chapter must have, which determines the
number of bids that can be extended during recruitment
R
R
Recruitment – The process by which sororities select new
members, which typically consists of several “rounds” or “parties.” Many
collegiate chapters hold formal recruitment in the Fall and informal
recruitment (if necessary) in the Spring.
Ritual – The traditional beliefs, oaths, and ceremonies of a fraternity or
sorority that are secret and usually implemented in weekly meetings and
initiation and are especially important to members
Recruitment Counselor (Phi Chi/ΠΧ, Rho Chi/ΡΧ,
or Gamma Chi/ΓΧ) – A representative
from a sorority who disaffiliates from her chapter during the recruitment
process in order to help potential new members
Rush - A program (and period of time) of membership recruitment by Greek organizations. It is primarily the IFC fraternities that use this term, although it is often used unofficially by other organizations.
Rush - A program (and period of time) of membership recruitment by Greek organizations. It is primarily the IFC fraternities that use this term, although it is often used unofficially by other organizations.
Rushee – see “PNM”
S
S
Sister – An initiated member of a sorority/women’s fraternity
Sisterhood/Brotherhood
– Intangible, yet the most
cherished of assets among all Greek members, sisterhood and brotherhood are the
foundations of sorority and fraternity life. Both are difficult to explain, but
they can be basically characterized by their most common and identifiable
element.
Scholarship – A minimum grad point average is required
by sororities and fraternities in order to become an initiated member. Each
chapter has a scholarship program to provide incentives, coordinate study
hours, and to encourage members to achieve their highest academic goals.
Social/Mixer – When two organizations, usually a sorority
and fraternity, but can also be two sororities or two fraternities, get
together to do a planned activity
Sorority – A woman's Greek organization. This is the
term commonly used to distinguish between men's (fraternity) and woman's
(sorority) organizations, although many sororities identify as a fraternity in
their official name.
Stepping/Stroll – A performance or line dance involving
marching and the traditional culture of an organization (usually at a party or
step show)
Strict Silence – A policy where members are forbidden to
discuss recruitment and related topics with non-sorority members outside of
recruitment events. Some chapters even forbid members from talking to
non-members during the end of recruitment until Bid Day unless absolutely
necessary (such as for a class).
T
T
Twiddle: “Twin Littles;” when a Big has two Littles
at once
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